There’s something magical about finding a piece of jewelry that feels like it was made just for you. It’s not just about how it looks—though that’s certainly part of the charm—it’s about how it makes you feel. And when I discovered Pandora’s Be Love engravable charm, I knew I had found something special.
Which was a bit of a surprise, because to be honest, I’ve never been a fan of heart-shaped jewelry. It always felt a bit more cutesy than chic for my taste, and not quite my style. But something about this charm changed my perspective. Maybe it’s the softness of its rounded edges or the simplicity of the engraving, but it immediately felt different, and special. It’s less about making a statement to the world and more about making one to myself—a reminder of the love within me.
The charm became even more meaningful when I decided to wear it as part of a custom necklace that now represents my journey as a mother. The centerpiece is the larger silver heart, flanked by two smaller yellow gold hearts—each symbolizing one of my daughters. The way these charms hang together on a delicate chain feels like a perfect metaphor for our family: strong and united, yet each of us shining uniquely.
What I love most about this piece is its weighty, substantial feel without ever veering into clunky. The sleekness of the hearts feels right in line with this season’s trend toward polished and sculptural jewelry—pieces that stand out not just for their design but for the meaning they carry. And let’s not forget my lifelong love affair with mixing metals: This necklace’s combination of silver and gold adds an extra layer of style that I can’t resist.
In a world where we’re too frequently bombarded with messages of what we should be, it’s refreshing to have something that quietly reminds me of who I already am—especially key to someone struggling to reclaim my sense of self after having two babies. This little collection of hearts may be small, but it carries a big message. And every time I catch a glimpse of it in the mirror, I’m reminded to, well, be love—to myself, to my daughters, and to others. Because love, as Pandora beautifully encapsulates, isn’t just something we wait for or celebrate on special occasions. It’s something we embody every single day.
Here’s to embracing love in all its forms, starting with the love we show ourselves and extending to the ones we hold dearest.
Laura Lajiness Kaupke is a freelance writer and editor covering fashion, accessories, and lifestyle topics, including beauty, home, fitness, and travel. You can see her work across various outlets, including VOGUE, Harper’s BAZAAR, ELLE, Marie Claire, InStyle, Glamour, Esquire, Women’s Health, Brides, The Zoe Report, Popsugar, Refinery 29, Coveteur, Byrdie, Well+Good, The Editorialist, among other titles and brands. Laura has worked in the fashion industry for over 11 years and held senior fashion editor positions at Popsugar and The Zoe Report, with additional experience as a copywriter and fashion publicist.